Why Sex Should Be Avoided ~ KARMIC COACHVarun Mishra
Please accept my blessings & Be Krishna Consciousness…
Look this is a Debatable topic in this material world & I am looking forward to get so much criticism over me here with this topic but still i tried to make it logical & clear to justify this topic..Currently, Adopting Western culture & broadcasting of nudity Web series (Especially on Nudity & SEX) on rise destroy our Youth generation & society as a whole which itself make them helpless in this scenario & a root cause of most of the problems & sufferings.
Sex life is the highest material pleasure and also the root cause of most of our grief. Rape, Teenage pregnancy, single parenthood, abortion, sexually transmitted diseases, divorce, domestic violence are a few of the common problems that are rooted in illicit sex life. Marriage is God’s institution where regulated sex life is allowed, so that the husband and wife can focus on their primary duty of serving God together.
Sex should only be for begetting children. No sexual relationship with anybody except a religiously-wedded wife and that too for procreation of Krishna Conscious children. Procreation and sex are meant for procreation of a Krishna Consciousness child. Sex for that purpose is religious.
In Bhagavad Gita (7.11), Krishna says that he is the sex life that is not contrary to religious principles.
Let me give you an example here to explains why sex should be avoided as much as possible..
“The camel he is a big animal, who takes pleasure in eating his own blood. How is that? You will find the camels are very fond of eating thorns. So the thorns they eat, and the thorns cut the tongue, and the blood comes out. It makes a taste, and he is thinking that the thorns are very tasteful. That is camel.
Similarly, we are everyone like camels because we are enjoying sex. What is this sex? I am spoiling my blood. One drop of semen is created by sixty drops of blood. That is scientific. So when one discharges this semen, he thinks he is enjoying. He does not know that he is spoiling his blood. That is camel. He thinks he is enjoying. He does not think that ‘I am spoiling my blood. And if I spoil my blood more, then I shall be attacked with so many diseases, I will lose my resistance power.’ He does not know. But he thinks that sex enjoyment is very nice. It is not nice at all.”We are behaving like a Camel in this material world.
This is why those who understand what is actually going on in the body will remain totally celibate or only use sex for procreation.
Tough indeed… but one has to follow such rules to achieve absolute freedom. Otherwise we will keep moving from one cage to another. Don’t be discouraged if you are not successful right away. The easiest way to refrain from these activities is to always keep yourself engaged in God’s service wherever you are and whatever you may be doing.
Keep chanting “Hare Krishna Hare Krishna, Krishna Krishna, Hare Hare, Hare Rama, Hare Rama, Rama Rama, Hare Hare” and you will be guaranteed of success.
Om Shanti & Hare Krishna to all Blessed Souls.